Plenty Of Fish is an online dating website founded in 2003 by Markus Frind one year before Facebook and is based in Vancouver, British Columbia. It is commonly known as POF and is a very famous online dating website globally. POF is very popular in Canada, Australia, United Kingdom, New Zealand, Brazil and Ireland. It have over 90 million registered user globally and increasing day by day. POF is available in nine different languages for user’s convenience. You don’t need to pay for registering yourself with POF standard account. It also offer premium account as a part of their membership which is also very pocket friendly and offer lots of additional premium features.
POF claims an impressive 55 thousand new sign up daily basis and have three millions active users every day. Interestingly it claims that you know at least one person around you who have found someone online on POF. Many people actually found their perfect match online and end up having long-term relationships. It’s a pretty convenient way to meet someone on POF. One of my friend even met someone on POF last year and is still dating her to this day. Today online dating getting more popular but talking to women online is an art and isn’t that easy. Many people found their perfect match to message but they really don’t know how to start conversation and approach them. To strike up an interesting conversation is an art. You must let them know that your views for the relation is clear you are interested and most importantly make other person need to message you back. The purpose of the very first message should be to introduce you and see if there is mutual positive response. You should keep first conversation casual, light and friendly. First consider what sort of message you would like to receive. The best suitable match for you will appreciate the same type of approach. There are some proven ways that will be very helpful when trying to start conversations with women online on POF.
Read their profile carefully before reply
There is lots of information available in other person’s profile, so first try to make sure that that you actually read this information. Talk about a common interest if you noticed. Talking about to their occupation, pictures or hobbies in your message shows that you have enough homework and spent your valuable time into reading their profile and have taken a genuine interest in them.
Do remember to not forget to let your personality shine through. Think of how your family and friends see you. If you are famous as a funny guy, then never forget to try in a tasteful joke. If you’re creative, poetic or artistic, let them know regarding this positive aspect of your personality.
When you’re messaging almost anonymously with other, it can be very easy to lie about yourself to make yourself look better. Avoid such practices, because it will get awkward if you ever do meet up in future and you always keep remembering the fact that human are prone to have flaws and drawbacks. Try to accept them and your partner will also reflect this back. Make your flaws and disadvantages into a joke that you can both laugh about and this will surely help your partner be more likely to share their flaws too, so you don’t get any special surprises when you end up meeting in personal.
Decide when to meet it offline
Never try to push your luck if you’re enjoying the online conversation. Exactly try to decide when to take your virtual relationship offline before it faded away. In fact, dating is about face to face meeting, hearing your partner voice, enjoy their smell and feeling their touch. It is recommended to meet up earlier rather than later or fix a face to face meeting after you know majority of things about each other. You need to enjoy your first date and also try to make the day memorable for both of you.
Everyone loves talking about interesting things and habits about their partner, so give your partner an opportunity to start asking such question about yourself. Asking simple and light questions will keep the environment interesting and keep a conversation going online. The more they answer to your query, the more confidence you will gain for the further conversation. Even better, you may explore some major areas about their views by flattering their ego.
Keep remember that it’s not a job interview, so try to make your question a more interesting and different. By adopting this measure, you will stand out from the rest of the candidate and will receive a better and positive response. Always avoid asking things they have already mentioned on their profile.
Start flirting but with limitation
Flirting is rather fun, but when you are flirting online you need to keep your patient and slower about it than normal. Because you are not physically visible to your partner, or they can’t understand the true signals you are trying to send. Flirting too early in an online conversation can create negative environment for further talking. Try to avoid immediately start talking about adult toys or send her a picture of yours at the gym all pumped up post workout. Make sure that you add gentle behavior to your pre meeting messages. Make sure you don’t go out of control on your online conversation. Vulgar action will kills a conversation early on like pushing boundaries way too far.
Keep the message short and sweet
Try to create a profile and filled out with short and suitable descriptions. The purpose of your message is to provoke the recipient to view your profile and check whether if he or she is interested in you as of you. There is no need to write detailed description about your life history or an encyclopedia of personal details on your online profile. Unnecessary description and highlights of your certain action will possibly make sense when you both know each other a bit better.